Choose not your fathers nor your brethren for friends if they take pleasure in disbelief rather than faith. Whoso of you taketh them for friends, such are wrong 9:23
Because Allah made men superior to women (and men spend money on them)
Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of
their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath
guarded. 4:34