The good deed and the evil deed are not alike. Repel the evil deed with one which is better, then lo! he, between whom and thee there was enmity (will become) as though he was a bosom friend. 41:34
Because Allah made men superior to women (and men spend money on them)
Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of
their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath
guarded. 4:34
